Confessions From 30,000 Feet

by Gradon on December 15, 2008 · 10 comments

in life,social media

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I’m writing this from row 23, seat D, on Delta flight 1261 from Boston to Salt Lake City. The flight so far has been tame, which I thank the pilot and the clear weather for. There’s an infant two rows behind me that has expressed his displeasure over the cramped quarters, but overall has been a good sport. We’ve been flying for about 4 hours now, which means we’re somewhere over the Midwest.

I’m in a window seat and can’t help but stick my face up against the window every 20 minutes or so. The guy in the aisle seat probably thinks I’m crazy, taking photos out the window.

For the last few hours, very flat, snow-covered land with a kind of large grid of roads. Farms, small towns. For someone from Boston – where even the busiest streets downtown are paved cattle trails – and who is into clean lines and a bit of minimalism, this is strangely beautiful.

I’m just starting to see, not exactly mountains, but hills. Pine trees darken the land as it comes up towards us.

This one flight is showing me just how varied and beautiful this nation is.

Of course, by now maybe you can guess what my big confession is.

I don’t travel often.

I haven’t been on a plane in two years. Every conference I’ve been to for work has been on the Eastern Seaboard. Atlanta. Philadelphia.  I’ve never been further south than Florida, and never further west than Johnson City, TN (actually, I had a layover in Columbus, OH, but I was in the airport for all of an hour, so I don’t count it).

This is different than how I’d always thought I’d be. Growing up, I’d always figured travel – for work and for pleasure – would be a fairly regular thing for me. But it just hasn’t panned out that way.

Here’s yet another way social media is changing my life. First, and most obvious, is that social media has given me the means to meet Meg, the reason I’m on this plane right now. She flew from Vancouver to Boston last October (her longest trip ever), and I’m heading to her fair city today. This back and forth will keep up for the next several months, until Meg is able to make the leap to Boston full time.

But there’s another way social media’s going to get me on a plane, and that’s Social Media for Social Change. We’re organizing our second event for New York in April. Now, I’ve been to New York over a dozen times, but the chance to go there and do something, give something to the city, is exciting.

There’s talk, after New York, of doing SM4SC events in Philadelphia, Atlanta, Portland, OR, and even London. I’m sure we’ll be visiting more and more cities as SM4SC grows.
Beyond that, there are of course the conferences that I’ll go to for SM4SC, both social media ones and nonprofit ones. I won’t be able to make SXSW this spring, but I’ll certainly be there in 2010.

What about you? Would you like to confess some way that social media has changed your life? Leave a comment below, or maybe write about it on your blog.

  • http://buddingpublicrelations.blogspot.com/ Adam Denison

    One thing social media has helped me do is get back in touch with so many people I’ve lost contact with over the years. Sure, I could have been better about staying in touch, but I just let life’s busy nature get in the way of what’s most important. I actually know some of my cousins better now because of social media! Sad, huh?

  • http://buddingpublicrelations.blogspot.com Adam Denison

    One thing social media has helped me do is get back in touch with so many people I’ve lost contact with over the years. Sure, I could have been better about staying in touch, but I just let life’s busy nature get in the way of what’s most important. I actually know some of my cousins better now because of social media! Sad, huh?

  • http://www.megfowler.com/ Meg

    My life has changed completely, really. Not the day to day, I guess, though I have more work to do. What has changed is that my future is full of a whole new group of people to love and to enjoy and to work alongside. And that’s always awesome.

  • http://www.megfowler.com Meg

    My life has changed completely, really. Not the day to day, I guess, though I have more work to do. What has changed is that my future is full of a whole new group of people to love and to enjoy and to work alongside. And that’s always awesome.

  • http://twitter.com/khawe Kieran

    Social media hasn’t changed my life personally, except for a bunch of great people I have met – the biggest impact Social media has played in my life is on the business / networking side. Through various social media outlets I have connected with some of the top people within the Online Marketing space and have gained a lot from their insight.

  • http://twitter.com/khawe Kieran

    Social media hasn’t changed my life personally, except for a bunch of great people I have met – the biggest impact Social media has played in my life is on the business / networking side. Through various social media outlets I have connected with some of the top people within the Online Marketing space and have gained a lot from their insight.

  • http://buzzbuilderz.com/ Bill Lublin

    Gradon; Because of Social Media, I’m sitting with Jeff Turner talking about how your life was changed by Social Media. And my connection to Jeff was born of social media interaction- obviously life changing.

    In Philadelphia, there is a group called Net2 which is a group of people working for causes and non-profits who are trying to find social media solutions to their organizations problems

  • http://buzzbuilderz.com Bill Lublin

    Gradon; Because of Social Media, I’m sitting with Jeff Turner talking about how your life was changed by Social Media. And my connection to Jeff was born of social media interaction- obviously life changing.

    In Philadelphia, there is a group called Net2 which is a group of people working for causes and non-profits who are trying to find social media solutions to their organizations problems

  • http://www.twitter.com/changstein Caleb Chang

    I did a personality test and the results said that I was smack in the middle between an introvert and an extrovert. I would say that I’m slightly more introverted than extroverted. I feel comfortable with small groups and enjoy in depth conversation. I don’t feel at ease with large groups – especially filled with people I don’t know. Social media has helped me come out of my shell a little.

    Social media has reshaped the way I think about friendships. I’ve heard it often that “most of my Twitter friends are ones I’ve never met.” I’m no exception. I’ve had the occasion to meet some of my Twitter friends at a local BarCamp and the strange thing is that I had very little to say because, for the most part, I already knew more about my online friends than I did about my offline friends. I was quite content just hanging or sitting back and observing their nuances.

    About nine months ago, I decided to start my own gig again. The last time I went on my own, I really missed the interaction especially in brainstorming ideas. Platforms like Twitter are excellent for bouncing ideas around – not just with creatives like myself, but with a wonderfully diverse group.

    Confession. I don’t travel much either, Gradon. Welcome to our neck of the woods!

  • http://www.twitter.com/changstein Caleb Chang

    I did a personality test and the results said that I was smack in the middle between an introvert and an extrovert. I would say that I’m slightly more introverted than extroverted. I feel comfortable with small groups and enjoy in depth conversation. I don’t feel at ease with large groups – especially filled with people I don’t know. Social media has helped me come out of my shell a little.

    Social media has reshaped the way I think about friendships. I’ve heard it often that “most of my Twitter friends are ones I’ve never met.” I’m no exception. I’ve had the occasion to meet some of my Twitter friends at a local BarCamp and the strange thing is that I had very little to say because, for the most part, I already knew more about my online friends than I did about my offline friends. I was quite content just hanging or sitting back and observing their nuances.

    About nine months ago, I decided to start my own gig again. The last time I went on my own, I really missed the interaction especially in brainstorming ideas. Platforms like Twitter are excellent for bouncing ideas around – not just with creatives like myself, but with a wonderfully diverse group.

    Confession. I don’t travel much either, Gradon. Welcome to our neck of the woods!

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