Can You Separate Yourself From What You Do?

by Gradon on January 20, 2010 · 16 comments

in social media,Twitter

If there’s any single benefit of what Chris Brogan offers to the social media world at large (and let me say, there are many), it’s that he makes you think.

Broganmedia first tweet Can You Separate Yourself From What You Do?

Recently, after prodding from Robert Scoble, Chris created a second Twitter account. The guise of @broganmedia (that’s the first tweet, above) was to share a “more pure stream” of Chris’s content. The account, so far, follows no one, doesn’t converse and only shares links to articles, either Chris’s or those that he likes.

The idea of Chris separate from his content — or vice versa — is a strange one. In my mind, producing vast amounts of social media content is a big part of the brand that is Chris Brogan. Where’s the value of the content, if it’s separate from the man who makes it?

This, of course, is something that Chris is going to have to figure out. But what this scenario did for me was, it made me start to question the approach I’ve taken to Twitter for my various pursuits.

On Twitter, I have separate personalities. Of course, I’m @gradontripp, freelance content and social media strategist, online do-gooder, and indie rock junky. And then I’m @designboston, a stream utterly obsessed with all things architecture, furniture, and other design elements.

What value am I creating by having them separate? Would there be more value in combining them? After all, they’re two sides of one person. Me.

(I’m also one-third of @sm4sc, the Twitter stream of the organization that Matt Knell, Meg Fowler and I started in 2008 to help nonprofits use social media tools. Since SM4SC is all of us, it makes sense that the Twitter account remains separate from either one of us.)

On one hand, @gradontripp is ME. I ramble, talk nonsense, espouse my thoughts on the state of marketing in the online world, share news, music and video links, and  tweet sweet nothings to Meg, much to the chagrin of some of our following (tough for them, I say!).

Having @designboston separate, it seems, makes that stream “more pure”, as Scoble puts it, but it intrinsically becomes less conversational. It becomes more about links to content, retweeting other relevant information, and be generally more distanced from my community.

But this isn’t true to who I really am. In “real life”, I’m a father, boyfriend, design fanatic, and marketer, in that order. I’m the person people go to when they want to know about a building in Boston (something Leslie Poston stumped me on last week). I’m the guy that can tell you who made what chair, and when. I continuously think of ways to improve my apartment, from storage to furniture to cookware (well, Meg helped with that one) and more.

Why am I not letting that side shine through on @gradontripp?

Would the people that connect with @designboston be willing to put up with all the non-design stuff I talk about on @gradontripp?

Would those that follow @gradontripp care to hear about my furniture obsession?

To all of these, I don’t know. What are your thought?

  • http://www.twitter.com/jennalyns Jennalyns

    I follow you and I'd love to hear more about your furniture obsession. I often forget you have it, to be perfectly honest, and when it comes up on @gradontripp it's like getting to know a new side of you. I say if you are your twitter, especially if you delineate personal vs. professional, then let ALL your personal hang out. As much as is decent in public, of course.

  • megfowler

    I think if Joyce and Christopher (the other contributors at DB) tweeted on the @designboston handle (with the ^JH convention to ID who was tweeting, or whatever you came up with) then it would make more sense to keep them separate.

    Also, I could see how certain people who followed you for a certain thing might be a little bewildered by content that seems radically different from the stuff they follow you for… but I've been doing that to people since I joined Twitter. I am the dictionary definition of “NOT A NICHE COMMUNICATOR.”

    I'm also the person who told you to use your own name instead of @designboston way back in the beginning, because there was more to you than just design. When you added a second account, I understood the impulse to create a more centered stream of content.

    But if you're feeling a pull to combine your streams, why not try it for a while and see how it goes?

  • http://twitter.com/UltraNurd Nicolas Ward

    To be honest, I wasn't aware of @designboston… I probably just missed the relevant tweets, although I certainly picked up on your architecture interest here and there. Have you ever read Sarah Susanka's series on the Not So Big House?

    I won't deny that I've looked to your and @megfowler's example given that @Andrle and I are dating and have rather significantly increased our reply stats to one another :o D.

    I sometimes worry that I tweet too much, or about too wide a variety of things (science, video games, politics, social media, random inside jokes with old friends), but on the other hand people say the variety is interesting. I do have a @NicolasWard account parked in case I ever want to separate myself from my handle or something like that.

  • billymacdonald

    It's definitely good to keep things separate. I think every business should have one main account and each employee have individual accountants where they can reveal their personality and really connect with others. Whether or not they bring what they do for work, or for their business account, into what they do and say on their individual can then be decided by them.

    It's also a good way to keep business and personal life separate and give people the freedom to share their views on politics, religion, sports, etc. without fear of turning away a potential customer because of it.

    Lastly, many people won't know the accounts are managed by the same people. I follow both your accounts being interested in what's going on around the Boston area and had no idea until just now.

  • dirkler

    I have run into the same issue as you have. I go by @dirkler which many people have commented on it's similarity to Dirk Diggler. I didn't mean it to reference that but here I stand. And it's available everywhere. I seem to be the only dirkler out there…

    But I also run this dysonsound.com blog and wonder if I should use a separate handle for that? @dysonsound is there and ready.

    I'm just glad to hear someone else is wondering what the right thing to do is.
    I think I'll stick with what I have but good to know this is relevant topic besides my own brain.

  • http://redboxcommunications.com carissao

    I’ve actually always thought the way you’ve managed these was smart, but I can also see how you’re feeling now about the separation and what it means about each side of you. I think what you might consider is a slight adjustment in how you engage from the two accounts, rather than joining them.

    It’s interesting to see the balance of comments from people who were aware of the interrelation of @gradontripp and @designboston, and those who had no idea. This leads me to believe that perhaps the separation has been too sharp. I think there’s room for you to infuse more of your design interests in your @gradontripp stream, as well as there is for you to get more personal with @designboston. I see your @designboston account as your version of @broganmedia, made complete by true engagement with the design-focused community that shares your passion. While you’re engaging, make it clear who you are and how the rest of you influences those passions. And rather than simply retweeting @designboston from @gradontripp, add some personal context so folks know what and why you’re sharing from that other side.

    In the end, I think the separation is as good for you to manage your content as it is for your followers to consume it. It allows you to maintain some focus in how you share, and gives followers a choice in what side or sides of you they want to get to know.

  • http://twitter.com/eric_andersen Eric Andersen

    Great post, Gradon – this has been an interesting debate that I keep hearing on Twitter, at tweetups, etc. Many say they prefer to get “the whole package” of someone, rather than just one aspect, as this reflects real life our real selves. On the other hand, people new to Twitter or using Twitter for a specific purpose might only be interested in one aspect of a person, and they might see all other tweets as noise. Twitter lists also bring issue this to light – what if someone on a “humor” list wants to tweet about “tech” as well, or vice versa?

    Meg has a good point – you could certainly try combining for a while. But then how do you convince all the followers to move over to one account or the other? Another option would be to periodically let people know that you are also @designboston, and from @designboston let them know you are @gradontripp. That way, people can make their own decision to follow both if they want. I can't remember that you've ever mentioned that, and it seems @Ultranurd's experience backs that up. If you're interested, you can talk to @karelvredenburg who also tweets as @ibmdesign – he regularly tweets from one account that he is also the other, so you can ask him about his experience.

  • digiphile

    It's difficult to truly separate yourself from what you do, especially in a world where we are so defined by our work. Social media allows us to also be defined by what we read, eat, drink, buy to otherwise talk about. Lists are a mirrored reflection of how others have “tagged” us in that realm. Over time, your networks classify you based upon what you share. You've been thoughtful about concentrating your design stream into @designboston. I think that makes tons of sense, in terms of increasing the influence of that account and its attached blog. That should pay off in terms of SEO and influence on real-time search. I agree with Eric that indicating who runs the account would be useful.

    I have some personal experience here, since I run several other accounts for good blogs, nonprofits and a corporate media entity. I focus the @ITcompliance account on regulatory compliance as it affects IT operations — and very little else. Cybersecurity, data breaches, cyberlaw — but none of the other things I might share on @digiphile. That's worked well, in terms of how that account has been listed. As you know, I share stories from that account into my own stream on occasion, at the rate of 1 to 10 or ever 20 for others' content. Seems to have been welcome and effective.

    I'd say definitely bring in some design focus but keep it in balance with the rest of your life. There's plenty more to Gradon I want to hear about than Scandinavian ottomans, after all.

  • http://twitter.com/carissao Carissa O'Brien

    I've actually always thought the way you've managed these was smart, but I can also see how you're feeling now about the separation and what it means about each side of you. I think what you might consider is a slight adjustment in how you engage from the two accounts, rather than joining them.

    It's interesting to see the balance of comments from people who were aware of the interrelation of @gradontripp and @designboston, and those who had no idea. This leads me to believe that perhaps the separation has been too sharp. I think there's room for you to infuse more of your design interests in your @gradontripp stream, as well as there is for you to get more personal with @designboston. I see your @designboston account as your version of @broganmedia, made complete by true engagement with the design-focused community that shares your passion. While you're engaging, make it clear who you are and how the rest of you influences those passions. And rather than simply retweeting @designboston from @gradontripp, add some personal context so folks know what and why you're sharing from that other side.

    In the end, I think the separation is as good for you to manage your content as it is for your followers to consume it. It allows you to maintain some focus in how you share, and gives followers a choice in what side or sides of you they want to get to know.

  • http://uptownuncorked.com geechee_girl

    Lord people overthink this stuff.

  • megfowler

    I love you, girl, but that's kind of an ironic comment for someone who shares a credit on the 266-page “Twitter For Dummies.” :)

  • http://twitter.com/LilPecan Pecan

    I've thought about your post a great deal not because it applies to me (you'll understand why in a moment) but because I've always done such a poor job explaining to people why I am who I am on Twitter. Your question becomes more pertinent and harder to answer for people who have careers in fields that relate to the content usually found on Twitter – technology, marketing, public relations, design, music, writing, current events and celebrity. In these cases a person needs to ask themselves: a) am I going to use my account to promote my business and b) would I mind if a potential client saw my stream? If the answer to both is yes then I think you need two accounts – one for your career persona and one for your family, friends and interests not related to your career.

    In my case the answer to both is no but your post made me realize the reason I am who I am on Twitter is not simply to shield clients from my online rantings but to shield my stream from my work. I am primarily an Accidental Bodily Injury Claims Examiner. I could use Twitter to help people understand better what I do so they would not malign those in my profession as much as they do but my field is not something they want to know about. I am used to compartmentalizing who I am out of necessity. When I pull up all the sympathy, empathy and tact I possess to speak with the mother of three kids whose husband just suffered an auto accident so horrific his head is in the wheel well of another car that is draining but not something anyone else wants to hear about. Conversely, no one who knows Pecan would ever think she has those attributes. If I did not separate what I do from who I am, I would not be able to do what I do so well or for long. Pecan makes people happy and does all those other things I can't do in my career thus giving me the outlet I need to keep doing what I do. Not knowing she is there gives my clients the comfort of only seeing my official, competent, serious self. I often wish I could show the whole of who I am to all but in my line of work they want a serious, logical, unemotional machine and that is what I give them. On Twitter people see enough of the serious and unemotional from other sources so they don't need it from me.

  • http://uptownuncorked.com geechee_girl

    People spend way too much time over analyzing their “personal brand” these days. It's pretty simple, be the best “you” possible online, share what you are comfortable sharing, if you are here for work, keep a goal in mind. Once you find your comfort zone, do your best to be consistent. It has little to do with the tools you choose, like Twitter – it's self directed. I see so many posts just agonizing over this lately, and it is needless wheel spinning. Personally, for Gradon, I don't follow @designboston, because I know of his mad design skillz and I prefer to follow @gradontripp (ditto not following @broganmedia – I'd rather here from Chris). If he wants an opinion that has nothing to do with personal brand and everything to do with Gradon being an interesting cat, I'd love to see them combined.

  • megfowler

    I don't think this is a branding internal debate — those wear on me, too. This is more a question of content division and audience, and how to serve constituencies well while being true to your own interests.

    His voice/brand is remarkably similar in both streams (curious, generous, excited, sarcastic), and I think he's pretty true to his personality in any case.

    But deciding what should go where, and how to make those choices, that's a dilemma most content providers face eventually.

  • http://www.themusingbouche.com/ Tania

    I've been having the same debate with myself…. and don't have a great answer. Like you, I have a personal account and then one for my passion/hobby (for me, it's food). But I find that I tend to use one account over the other (in my case the food one) and hence feel like I'm losing valuable content/ dialogue. In recent weeks, I've considered merging the two, but like you worry about losing the “purity” of the food twitter persona…. however, I think I may merge the two. It seems to me that I'd think harder about what I tweeted about in order to appeal to everyone and that might raise the quality bar for the overall twitter experience…

  • http://www.themusingbouche.com/ Tania

    I've been having the same debate with myself…. and don't have a great answer. Like you, I have a personal account and then one for my passion/hobby (for me, it's food). But I find that I tend to use one account over the other (in my case the food one) and hence feel like I'm losing valuable content/ dialogue. In recent weeks, I've considered merging the two, but like you worry about losing the “purity” of the food twitter persona…. however, I think I may merge the two. It seems to me that I'd think harder about what I tweeted about in order to appeal to everyone and that might raise the quality bar for the overall twitter experience…

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